How does one succeed in life?
08.06.2025 18:28
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How could Trump, with his deplorable garbage supporters, manage to win an election?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Are you more of a butt guy or a boob guy?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why is digital marketing important?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
If Trump were to lose in 2024, would that be the end of his grip on the Republican Party?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?
Does not procrastinate.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What I need from you?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Ask yourself:
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.